Last night, a woman I have seen at the clubs for a while (technically one of the first people I met in the Toronto goth scene, several years ago - she is still regularly out) came up to me and told me that she thinks I am one of the best dancers in the scene and that she really likes the impact my presence has on the dance floor.
That may be the nicest thing someone who is barely and acquaintance has ever made the point of directly approaching me to say. It is also a relief to know that I am not some kind of horrible eyesore or otherwise considered "in the way".
Generally, I felt more relaxed and positive, last night, too. I hope that my overly-relaxed way of speaking said mood caused me to default into didn't make anyone feel strange. Then again, if I am to create the world I want to see, then I should make the world feel more relaxed, casual, and accepting by not playing the "walk on eggshells" game.
I just hope that I can maintain this more positive projection,
...Nights